There are some other features of gossip talking which I will like to expatiate the more, they are as follows:
1. Victimization pattern of gossip talking
2. Harassing pattern of gossip talking
3. Touting pattern of gossip talking
4. Error and correcting pattern of gossip talking
5. Search and love expression pattern of gossip talking
6. Crime exposures using the gossip pattern of conversations.
7. Humiliating pattern of gossip talking
8. Molesting pattern of gossip talking
9. Defamation pattern of gossip talking
10. Embarrassing pattern of gossip talking
VICTIMIZATION PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This is a pattern which involves huge conspiracy way of nailing another. It is a pattern used to negatively influence another so as not to expose the utmost faults or truth to the required authority or public. This pattern is used by wicked people, jealous and hateful people who are at the verge to see that they eliminate, defame or ruin another towards achieving their proposed plans or destiny. It is a very dangerous pattern of G.talks because you can never tell the odd ones around you who are seeking your downfall. So it is better to be confidential in the things that matters to you most.
HARASSING PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This is another pattern of G.talks that calls for insults, defamation, blaspheming, procrastinating or fallacy which tends to reduce someone’s reputation to noting. This pattern of G.talks is most times on a face-to-face, but through a third party or group kind of conversation or involvements. Most times misrepresentations can occur during this kind of G.talks, at which it will result into serious conflicts or arguments or even fight among those concerned.
TOUTING PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This pattern of G.talks is typically based on a cunning pattern of life style or attitudes towards another. And from observations you will understand that the person concerned is seriously showing grieves towards the carrier of the G.talks, so as to be able to expose the said gossip about the concerned. And the carrier can never be seen as a friendly fellow, but a foe that is just looking for a way of eliminating, embarrassing, humiliating and passing some disgusting information’s so as to create problem for the concerned. And at the time of confrontations it could lead to serious conflicts or fight among them, and this is because denial is certain from the carrier of the G.talks.
ERROR AND CORRECTING PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This pattern of G.talks tends to expose faults or error made out of negligence or proposed act on another. And this pattern also spots the relative differences between error and corrections. Errors most times are made through negligence, through misrepresentation or mis-comprehension and probably out of the knowledge of those or things that is concerned. And by this pattern error is corrected without compromise.
SEARCH AND LOVE EXPRESSION PATTERN OF G.TALKS
SEARCH
This pattern tends to expose someone who is on isolation. It gives a broad recognition of another by a way of exposing the person’s baggage to another or group. And this is either through engaging in the same work or giving a contract to execute or probably identifying an interest in another.
LOVE EXPRESSIONS
This pattern tends to expresses someone’s mutual feelings towards another, either at a close or distance range. And this pattern supersedes other patterns because by a way of identification is always mutual and considerable to comprehend. And one other good thing about this pattern is that it doesn’t calls for negativity of the interested person. Rather every expression made is always to the satisfaction of the heart and it pleases the soul. Sometimes it gives room for pet names to those involved. And lastly the sexual satisfaction derived can never be forgotten. It is typically for duo’s not group.
CRIME EXPOSURES USING G.TALKS
If a crime is spotted in a particular location, the way and manner the crime can be exposed is considered below:
1. Long distance G.talks
2. Short distance G.talks
3. Gadgets use of G.talks
4. The body language G.talks
5. The sign language G.talks
6.
Documenting
means of G.talks
LONG DISTANCE G.TALKS
This pattern works with the crowd control measures, that is to say it’s a very alarming pattern of communication which drags the attention of the public towards the communicator. And this is just to be able to capture the interest of those concerned. This pattern is used by a way of planting an insider or a mole in a particular location so as to take proper observations of the complains brought forward. And also using some groups placed at a distance point to always confirm the reports exposed. And the groups are conditioned to always stay alert so as to make references to any complains or findings exposed therein.
SHORT DISTANCE G.TALKS
This pattern exposes crime at a short distance location, probably neighboring environment or same. This pattern involves more than one assignee to the said location so that references can be made adequately in the case of denial. This short distance pattern can involves using some gadgets or equipment's for confirmations and proper documentation of the reports made.
GADGETS USE OF G.TALKS
This is a professional means of exposing crime using some gadgets for documentations and confirmations. This gadget includes recorders, cameras, CCTV and others. It is required to be placed at the crime location so that confirmations can be made at whole. Even prior to the crime it is required that these gadgets are to be placed at a proper hiding location for un-for-seen contingencies.
THE BODY LANGUAGE G.TALKS
This pattern is used by a classified person who can expose crime using his/her body without the notice of the offender. The body language is a silent means of communication that only the interested and well noted ones can comprehend such exposure of the said crime. And those concerned are always alert for comprehension of such crime.
THE SIGN LANGUAGE G.TALKS
This
pattern of G.talks is mostly use by those in the force and military combat. It
is seen that some soldiers if they are on military invasion in a crime location
they uses it to know when to move in and move out. It is also use to educate
the deaf and dumb and also to enhance communication around the environment or
country.
Documentation MEANS OF G.TALKS
This is the last and also the crucial, because when mistakes are made it back fires to the reporter of such crime. So it is of absolute mental alertness and possible confirmations and proofs before documentations and reporting. This pattern of exposing crime can be attached to all the above patterns of exposing crimes, because it supersedes all other means. It tends to serve as a back up to whatever report that is made. And it can stand alone without witnesses because the reports are made visual or audacity. So that is to say that documenting means is critical because it is made as the ‘reference doc’ ‘historical doc’ or ‘hardcore doc’ on an assignment or events. So documenting means is used to nail an accused without denial.
ADVICE
It is better for us humans to be very careful of what we alter out to another, because you never know who is documenting your words or statements so as to nail you in the nearest future.
HUMILIATING PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This pattern is used when someone wants to humiliate another in an indirect way. It is used by every or anyone who knows how to communicate wisely without the interference of the person concerned. It is indirect because it is very tempramensive when the person concerned notifies the conversation relates to him/her. And the communicator needs to be very skillful and utmost in dribbling pattern because it might lead to an attack if spotted. And it is of mental alertness that the listener needs to understand the person concerned in the G.talks. And this pattern of conversation can be used in a gatherings, seminars, church or mosques and even meetings. Est.
MOLESTING PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This is
just the same as above but it tends to moles the person concerned in a mimicry
form. It can be on pretense mimicry without the knowledge of the person
concerned. And it can be direct or indirect because the listener will pretend
the conversation is not for the person concerned. And the both communicator
needs to be very skillful so as not to expose themselves to any attack.
DEFAMATORY PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This tends to reduce someone’s or group reputation to noting. And it allegate or exposes the baggage’s of the person concerned. And it is directly or indirectly when communicating. And if the accused is of alertness it calls for immediate response or correction to the said communication with the aim of restoring every damaged conversation made against.
EMBARRASSING PATTERN OF G.TALKS
This pattern tends to expose someone’s baggage's without compromise. And it is way and manner of reducing the person’s confident to the public. But due to it is considered nuisance the person concerned needs to even show utmost or build more confidence because things can turn around in favor of the accused if he/she is serious minded person.
THE EFFECTS OF G.TALKS TO HUMANS
1. It causes serious mental illness
2. It increases the tempo of blaspheming and castigating another.
3. It causes serious defamation on someone’s reputation.
4. It reduces the life span of a person, because it puts the person concerned on a steady aggressive and paranoiacs mood.
5. It causes low self-esteem or low self-concept.
6. Shameful and disgraceful baggage’s can arise.
*people will rate you, hate you or even try to break you...but how strong you stand determines your strength and victory...*
*the tragedy of life does not lie in not reaching your goals...as you face any tragedy make sure you set your goals and work towards achieving them...*
THE SILENT ACCUSER 1
This is someone who decides to put another in unrest condition which can end up affecting the person mentally or otherwise. A silent accuser is someone who is full of enviousness, jealousy, hatred and all kinds of evil thoughts towards another, in a way just to bring the person’s reputation down or even eliminating the person using troubles of the mind or attacks.
A silent accuser goes in to seek for information’s about another, so as to use it against such person. And a silent accuser can be found anywhere, and the best way of avoiding them is by keeping records of you to yourself alone, or introducing the fear of the unknown towards every conversation or communication with another or group. It is never written on the face of anyone.
This is someone who decides to put another in unrest condition which can end up affecting the person mentally or otherwise. A silent accuser is someone who is full of enviousness, jealousy, hatred and all kinds of evil thoughts towards another, in a way just to bring the person’s reputation down or even eliminating the person using troubles of the mind or attacks.
A silent accuser goes in to seek for information’s about another, so as to use it against such person. And a silent accuser can be found anywhere, and the best way of avoiding them is by keeping records of you to yourself alone, or introducing the fear of the unknown towards every conversation or communication with another or group. It is never written on the face of anyone.
THE
PSYCHOLOGICAL TORTURE, A VERY DEADLY MEANS TO SUFFER SOMEONE
This is the scientific way to torture someone which involves emotional captivity, stress, anxiety and the conditioned will power to succumb and forcing the concerned person to obey some certain rules and regulations which will definitely go contrary to the concerned person’s life and will.
Or
It is the literate or illiterate means of torturing another or group which involves emotional captivity, stress, anxiety, denial or rejections and the will to forcefully obey some certain psychological rules and regulations which are considered mentally stressful and also goes contrary to the life and living of such person or group.
There are several factors to consider in psychological torturing and they are as follows:
- Communication
- Relationship and inter-relationship
- Sex
- Location
- Education
NB: Psychological torture can definitely lead to “Mental Illness”, “Death” or it can cause someone to be very backward in updates and chronic life and living.
- COMMUNICATION: Psychological torture can negatively influence someone when the person is conditioned on the way and manner he passes information, dialogue, chats, and letters to another which is considered assertive, passive, or aggressive to comprehend. Those who engages in psychological torture studies the mental state of another so as to humiliate, moles, defame or blaspheme the person driving him mentally sick.
- RELATIONSHIP & INTERRELATIONSHIP: Psychological torture can affect a person’s relationship if it is conditioned on one-sided, in a way for the other not to be able to express his/her feelings because of fear, anxiety or stress. And if on a continues state, it will definitely affect the person concerned mentally.
- SEX: psychological torture leads to serious sexual assault on their victims. And it causes serious mental illness on their victims.
- LOCATION: it can also cause or leads to serious isolation on the victim of psychological torture, if found in a location where he/she is spotted as the odd one out.
- EDUCATION: it takes a very understandable and literate person to overcome psychological torture, because it’s tactical to comprehend. It’s never an open kind of torture, but rather it deals with the conscience. In a way of seriously monitoring and evaluating the persons mental status.
“People will forget what you did, people will forget what you say, but people will never forget how you make them feel, so make someone feel the best of you...”
THE MADNESS IN HUMAN
There is this saying that every human exhibits some minutes of madness in life. But the truth is that humans are MAD, but pending on the degree of understanding from one person to another. And why I considered everybody to be mad is because if you find yourself in the position of leadership: then you will understand that even you and your followers are “mad.” And a leader tends to find every conversation so enduring even if such conversation is running the person concerned mentally sick. But the leader tries to succumb to hearing and understanding every conversation: both relevant and irrelevant, so as to bring possible conclusion to the complains. And madness is to be the attitude of jealousy. In the case of ordinary man: there is never a room for endurance even if it warrants the person. On the contrary, when there is room for endurance, then there won’t be room for understanding and the both parties tends to run tempramesively high, unless those who has some leadership symptoms in them, will always give room to endurance.
The causes of Madness can be categorized basically into three sections:
- Relationship (Marriage)
- Money
- Sex
RELATIONSHIP: mental sickness can resurrect from relationship if not properly nurtured. And it can come as a result of infidelity among the parties involved, when one of the parties decides to feel less concern towards another it leads to serious confusion and mental disturbance.
MONEY: in a situation whereby someone misses an agreed opportunity for money, it can drive the person mentally ill, and that is when you will notice the person in an aggressive mood, or just on a paranoid state of mind or even isolated from people.
SEX:
when someone is faced with serious sexual disturbance or assaults, it can lead
to serious mental sickness.
“the best thing that can happen to someone in a fight, is to fight with his senses not fighting to lose all what you have acquire, but to fight where you will maintain a good ground of sovereignty to yourself and whatever you have acquire...”
THE BAGGAGE SELLERS: This is a classified phys-co approach used by skillful armed robbers, assassins, kidnappers, touts and sometimes proclaimed lovers, at which they station themselves observing every loopholes of another in other to keep introducing mimicry pattern of gossip talking. And at the time of any approach upon such persons, denial will be the other of the day.
One important note is that baggage sellers are “RAT RACERS” & “PROGRESS MARKERS” and most times envious and jealous people who cannot manage themselves alone without pestering another for survival. They uses there victims as “BAIT” for there possible survival.
They are seen as lazy people, criminals of high profile and extorts. They most times impose there phys co approach so as to gain possible survival from there victim.
Baggage sellers are seen everywhere, they are sometimes your neighbours, colleagues, friends, touts, robbers, assassins, and kidnappers as the case may be. But one good illustration of baggage sellers can be seen below:
ILLUSTRATION
In a compound of three flats which was meant to be occupied by three tenants. One of the tenant decided to harbor four families in the same room. And the rooms in the flat where designed to be occupied by only two to three persons. So the tenant with four families was finding it difficult to protect the privacies. So two wives out of the four started mimicking another tenant in his privacy, proclaiming they are begging them. And this pattern of mimicry was seen as RAT RACING and PROGRESS MARKING, the other tenant. So this continued for a very long time, until other neighbours decided to break out the disturbance. And at this approach, the two wives denied that they weren't referring to the accused family. So the accused tenant decided to plant a mole in the compound to observe and as time pass the truth was unleashed and immediate arrest was carried out.
GENOCIDE MORTIFICATION
These
are particular race of people that are humiliated, embarrassed by their self-
discipline attitudes. Genocide mortification can exist within some group
probably in the house, church, mosque, rural worshipers, idol worshipers,
cult groups est. and these can be considered based on their ethics, doctrines,
rules and regulations, ways of living and so on and so forth. And before
genocide mortification can arise, there must be a rebel within or outside the
group mentioned above. And also a mole
(a small unexpected informal spy established within an organization) must be
introduced so as to be able to fish out the negativity of the said group. Below
are some self-discipline attitudes that can lead to genocide mortification. And
that is when such self-discipline attitude is considered or relatively
unacceptable by majority then great humiliation, embarrassment, jealousy,
hatred and wickedness of the mind and spirit tends to arise. Mind you,
self-discipline attitude is basically for oneself, “it’s never transferable” to another; unless the other finds it interesting and
profiting adapting to such kind of discipline life style.
SELF RESPECT
This is an attitude or behavior one possess that people show positive concern towards. This attitude or behavior gives heirs to other people in the manner at which is highly recognized positively, or it places such person in an honorary position in an environment or group.
It can also be considered as the admiration or esteem; politeness, regard for oneself rights and wishes. In life a man or woman needs to have respect for himself/herself first before transferring to another. That is why in the case of leadership; a leader needs to respect himself/herself and the things that concern him/her most before transferring such respect to another. And those things that concerns a leader must be respected by others or followers, even if they don’t find it interesting. But they must honor and respect it. Genocide mortification can exist if the person required to be respected is dis-respected then it will lead to molestation, humiliation, embarrassment, and jealousy and hatred est. and these attitudes of oneself that is not respected can lead to genocide mortification, and such attitudes are as follows: (i) basic isolation to most things (ii) masturbation (iii) adaptation to marital rules {when a man honors and respects his wife to the core without allowing unnecessary interference, but some husbands trade’s with their wife’s while some steadily cheats theirs} (iv) the kind of occupation as well {in this country Nigeria there is no respect for FORCE PEOPLE, JUDICIAL REPS, JOURNALIST, BUS CONDUCTORS & DRIVERS, TAX COLLECTORS est. so many disrespects people who engage in such occupations}, (v) The hereditary structure.(vii) peer groups. est. and genocide mortification can arise within the occupations mentioned above due to jealousy, hatred and steady sanction and monitoring of the person concerned.
MYTH:there are times those who possess such self-discipline attitude are
bullied, molested, or even defamed when the temptation of enviousness, jealousy
and hatred exist
Debunking the myth: it only affects those who gave way to critics, gossip, argumentative discussions, thwarting, or even given audience to irrelevant discussions and talks. Those who apply such principle needs to be cool headed, respectful, never dependents and well-mannered. And such person needs to be well-focused and most times with the right plans to life.
SELF-CONCEPT
This is another principles that enables one to plan, organize, interpret evaluate est. in a manner that will be favorable in life and the challenges thereto. This concept helps one to maintain good communication style, sustenance and good health issues. It can also be considered as the basic fundamental principles, schedules, scales of preferences and utmost idea to achieving a desired goal that is set for a particular time frame. And since genocide mortification is considered as humiliation, embarrassment of a self-discipline attitude, you will understand that it tries to change the course of such person towards failing to achieving the desired goal orientation. And Genocide mortification will only but cause distraction to the person’s way of life and living.
SELF-IDEAL
This is the originality of a person towards him/herself and others. It is the identification of a person, it can also be considered as the total recognition of someone. And anyone who adheres to such principle needs to be positive in life and the environment he/she resides including the kind of people he/she relates with. This can also be seen as the mirror reflection of oneself. It can also be seen as a person who has an aim of setting principles or standard to achieving what is considered perfect to his/her body and soul. And when genocide mortification strikes such person, it will cause the concerned not to achieve the desired aim or objectives to the perfection or standard of living. Genocide mortification is very dangerous to such person because it will only render him/her confused about life and the aim to achieving the desired objectives.
SELF-MODIFICATION
The
most important feature of this principle is that it gives room for checks and
balances. It is the principle that helps someone interpret or adhere to the
trials, tribulations and temptations that challenges someone in life. Also it
helps to overcome flattery, defamation, negligence and molestation. This
principle helps someone to control his/her temperament at all times. It can be seen as someone who tends to make
minor changes so as to adapt to situations, problems, challenges and conditions
of life. And when genocide mortification is introduced to such person, it will
only cause changes to go on the wrong pattern. It can also lead to frustration
to livelihood
SELF-RELIANCE
This principle helps someone to be self dependant. That is to say the principle of sovereignty applies to anyone who acquires such principle. This is the total freedom of any external interference or contribution. This is considered as the second best principle one needs to acquire in other to avoid unnecessary insults, defamation, negligence, blasphemy, or any negative recognition. But rather it should be seen as allegation or fake information. Genocide mortification can cause such person to be dependent on another in most of the things he/she does, and also trusting the negative people in life.
SELF-CONFIDENCE
This is the extreme believe in oneself that gives the person the go-ahead syndrome without any cause of set back or delay. Anyone who possesses such principle tends to face whatever temptation, trials and tribulation that may arise out of negligence or negative confrontations. “Believe in God, and you are half way there; believe in yourself, and you are three quarters there”. (Coined from disciplines of a godly man). This principle helps someone to protect his/her reputation at all cost, despite any negativity. Genocide mortification can cause a person to lose his/her confidence in life, unless he/she do away with critics...
There are several ways to overcome Genocide Mortification in life, and they are as follows:
1. Don’t answer to your critics
2. Post a guard to lessen the likelihood of attacks
3. Don’t confuse quiet with peace
4. Don’t waste time talking
5. You must remain firm in your decisions, arrangements and refuse to be intimidated by your oppressors.
6. Stay away from the oppositions.
There are several ways of protecting your plans, arrangements, ideas and potentials when you are under assault
1. Fight for your vision
2. Get moving
3. Allow God to fight for you
Guidelines for safeguarding your plans, arrangements, ideas and potentials
1. Recognize your enemies as the forces of evil
2. Expect Satan’s attack
3. Stand firm in the midst of attack
4. Prepare to overcome any attack.
”Never seem to be in a hurry--------- hurrying betrays a lack of control over yourself, and over time. Always look patient, as if you know that everything will come to you eventually. Become a detective of the right movements; sniff out the spirit of the times, the trends that will carry you to the next level. Learn to stand back when the time is not yet ripe, and strike fiercely when it has readed fruition.”
“Two things define you; your patients when you have noting, and your attitude when you have everything”
“Success is satisfying your own personal passion and purpose in pursuit of personal excellence”
“True success is what you have done compared to what you could have done”
The mind-set has produced an unending list of shallow folk-religion epigrams which tout the requisite qualities of successful careers.
Discipline- creativity is 2% inspiration and 98% perspiration.
Goals—if you aim at noting, you will hit it every time,
Savvy- success in life comes not from holding a good hand, but from playing a poor hand well.
Perseverance—tough times never last, but tough people do.
Vision--- some men dream dreams and ask why? I dream dreams and ask, why not?
ADVICE ON GENOCIDE MOTIFICATION
Anyone, group, organization or race of people who finds themselves been humiliated, embarrassed, defame or molested by their self- discipline attitudes or productions should find a possible way of making themselves happy, and also getting acquainted to positive people and things, in fact engaging into more researchable projects to make ends meet. Even conditioning oneself, group or organization that genocide mortification serves as a challenge to one, group, occupation or organization in other to come out more uniquely and more attracting, even educating to the general public to follow or for consumption purposes. And since it is based on facts and evidence of attitudes, products, rules and regulations, then the need to introduce positive lifestyle or goods that are favorably for consumption to general public, likewise showing confidence in any positive attitude needs to be ascertained.
Genocide mortification is a mere verbal words with no actions related, and for that reason it needs not o be something considered very important in life. Though it triggers the sense organs or the thought patterns and also scatters the organization or production targets. But when there is vision orientation, then it’s considered motion-less. On the other hand genocide mortification can also help someone, organization or race of people to have positive generational structure, production targets or probably introduce a kind of reasonable life style to the general public.
Genocide mortification scandal: it is better not to be a partaker of malicious gossip that will lead to outrageous or shocking information. SCANDAL MONGER; A person using genocide mortification can also be part of a scandal monger. This is because he tends to circulate some infectious gossip which will definitely affect the lives of those concerned. Even carrying serious ‘HAVOC’ or ‘HEALTH ISSUES’ to those concerned. So my advice is don’t be a partaker to ‘malicious gossip’ because it’s considered ‘NUISANCE’ to lives, health and properties. And you never know if what you are circulating will turn out to be affecting you as well. And even if it is of gain it is not meant to last long. And this is because what you get using curny pattern always goes off the same curny pattern. So be genuine and real to life, because you never know if your helper is standing next to you observing your life style.
